You can contact me at alphafemmesf [at] gmail [dot] com.
Some facts:
– I don’t know much about myself. It’s a constant struggle for me to figure out who I really am, what I really want, what kind of direction I want in my life. Writing this blog is part of my mission to find all that.
– I DO know that I am: queer, (alpha)femme, in love with mi’lady, currently living in San Francisco and not planning on leaving anytime soon, employed at a day job that I don’t care much about, struggling intermittently with co-dependency and depression, having great sex, intellectual and curious, a book nerd, just-shy-of-radically progressive, prone to fretting.
If you somehow manage to a) find my blog, and b) relate to my writings, please do say hi. I promise I won’t bite.
Unless you want me to … ;)
alphafemme 
eek biting femmes
lol ;)
By: bentcrude on October 12, 2008
at 11:37 am
Just saying hi as instructed. Love the alphafemme identity. Think I’ll scoop it for myself (and give props when it’s due). Seems to fit and I too had been struggling to find something that “fit”.
By: Martini on September 9, 2009
at 12:32 pm
Thanks for saying hi! And please do scoop it for yourself. I’m glad you find it fits. Maybe someday there will be a large contingent of us… :)
By: alphafemme on September 9, 2009
at 2:56 pm
Hey Alphafemme, Came across your blog about a week ago and have been enjoying it. Thanks for sharing your experiences with the rest of us; it’s interesting and great to read in the morning to put off work a little longer:)
By: chainsawchick on September 13, 2009
at 5:09 am
thanks for commenting, and glad you’re enjoying it! I really should be posting more often… I’m afraid I haven’t been providing you much morning reading material this past week. whoops!
By: alphafemme on September 14, 2009
at 9:24 am
I stumbled across your blog about a month ago, and something about your writing hits me in the gut. A lot of the things you say sound like they could have spilled out of my own head. I enjoy reading this, so I thought I might as well say hello. :)
By: SquidHole on September 26, 2009
at 9:46 pm
thanks so much for commenting. you don’t even know how much it means to me that there are people who relate to me through this blog!
By: alphafemme on September 28, 2009
at 2:26 pm
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By: why Alphafemme? « alphafemme on November 23, 2009
at 5:49 pm
Howdy do.
Alphafemme, love it.
You sound like me, minus the queer and the short hair.
Life is muchly hard.
And depression, eh?
My long time lover – never stops bloody calling.
^^
x
By: teenagegeek on December 4, 2009
at 3:52 pm
hey girl.
a (femme) friend turned me (also femme) on to your blog a couple weeks back and I am doling it out to myself in small doses (it’s finals time for me).
your voice and your experiences resonate with me on an incredibly deep level, so much so that I find myself having to physically distance myself from your writings sometimes- it’s a very uncanny, “how did she write something that I’ve THOUGHT before??” kind of feeling. It’s a good thing! But sometimes I’m totally taken aback by it and the level at which it gets me thinking.
Anyways, thank you. Self-examination in any form is courageous, and your blog does it so eloquently.
Solidarity, sister.
By: kateface on December 19, 2009
at 7:46 pm